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A selection from cover of book the men's club

Chapter 1
Admission Requirements

It's been five years since I've had a prostate, and I miss it the way I miss my youth-as a melancholy reminder of what was, rather than what isn't; a time of endless possibilities, reduced now to limited dreams. Call it wistful thinking.

I can't say I didn't think about my prostate before I decided to get rid of it; I had no choice. Almost every day, there was, and continues to be, enough media attention on prostate cancer to keep it a top of mind subject - especially if you're a man who's hit fifty, and are aware that it's been more prevalent an occurrence than breast cancer.

The prostate is the touted gland of the 90's and everyone's now free to talk about it. Time magazine gave it eight pages and a cover blurb. The tabloids feature it as one of the top ten diseases you' d want some South American dictator to acquire. Even a condo neighbor, a man whose name I can't even recall, sidles up to me in the elevator and asks me if I've read about Merv Griffin's having been diagnosed with it. "Yeah, his PSA was pretty high," I respond. Of course, I'd read the stupid article! Even without a prostate, even as I write this account, I am still drawn to any print or broadcast piece that even hints of a prostate mention. Just because you're discharged from the battle, however scarred but alive, doesn't mean you stop following the news from the front. If anything, you follow it even more assiduously You know people are out there fighting for every prostate, and well, attention must be paid. You're as drawn to prostate cancer news as a hemorrhoid sufferer is to yet another ad touting relief.

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